5 reasons to celebrate with your spouse

There’s nothing like a party to lift spirits and bring people together, especially a party for two. Have a special occasion together to celebrate something. And no, I don’t mean your birthday or wedding anniversary – that’s only three times in a year. Get creative, think of excuses to celebrate.…

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7 Simple Ways To Improve Your Marriage Every Day

My New eBook Is Now Available   I’m pretty excited about this, it’s the launch of my first ever eBook! After too many hours of writing, rewriting, editing and tweaking, I’m pleased to present you with 7 Simple Ways To Improve Your Marriage Every Day. About the book 7 Simple…

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I am not as strong as you think

If Facebook is to believed, everyone you know is having the time of their life. Their days are way more exciting than yours. They have more friends. They have been to more places. They have better stuff than you. They are just so much happier than you. It’s not true.…

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Do you suffer from self-sufficiency?

I am self-sufficient. As a child I was taught to have a can-do attitude. If it needed doing I would have a go. A problem was an opportunity to learn a new skill. Our society teaches self-sufficiency as a virtue but there is a danger in independence. It breeds pride…

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Do you really think you’re normal?

Ok, I know you think you’re normal… but does your spouse!? When taking on a new employee there are basic contractual elements that should be clearly defined; the employee’s duties and responsibilities the employer’s duties and responsibilities When we get married, the contract (or covenant) we make has nothing about…

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Why is so it difficult to ask this simple question?

Fear, uncertainty, confusion; Stress. “I don’t know what you want from me!” The statement rages round my head. Fearing failure, I stall. Then, paralysed, I fail. Have you ever felt that? Perhaps at work, perhaps at home? Why do we struggle to actually ask the question, “What do you want…

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What will you decide?

Getting the best out of anything requires care and attention but life is busy. Work increases, jobs get rushed, standards slip. Frustration grows, stress levels rise. Maintenance gets missed. “Just one more hour in the office….” “Just until this project is done….” It’s not that our relationships are unimportant. They…

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